Unfortunately this friendly banter affects the rest of society, at which point it stops being private. And while it is only a small part of the problem, it is part of the problem.
Black Americans have been pushing the rest of society so hard, and for so long, it is becoming intolerable. Eventually something far worse is going to happen unless they get their act together and stop raising hundreds of thousands of criminals.
And whatever this is, it would be a lot harsher than telling them to quit calling each other by the “n-word” and a hundred other such things.
Statistics show that children of single parents are 60% more likely to become social problems. So why don’t black leaders say “no babies unless you are married?” Some, a few, do. But it’s not enough.
Seriously, things are now so bad I would not be surprised to see a law by which all black children would be taken from their parents and raised by the state, unless the parents are married, have good jobs, etc.
“Unfortunately this friendly banter affects the rest of society,”
Especially where there is no sense of humor but whose fault is that? I am not responsible for other people’s lack of a sense of humor.