[Chode]

a woman, typical woman beaters... real tough guys they are

[Monkey Face]

My mother taught me to go to a restaurant/cafe/etc with a guy and just watch him as he orders, talks to the waitress, and how much he tips her.

If he treated her with respect all the way through, then that was most likely how he was going to treat me, in the long run.

Very few men passed that test. I am often still apalled.