I think making that kind of comment anywhere about someone’s demise is appalling...snarky??? That is mildly put. I find it offensive, rude, and disgusting. So whoever thinks it is appropriate can take their biases and run away
Of course since the man in question was married, my comment did not really pertain to him, now did it? Instead I made a point about how foolish it is to blame a person’s choice to engage in sin on anyone but the person himself, which point is neither appalling nor snarky. I can see you might wish to argue that it is a point that you wish were made elsewhere, but the point made does nothing to denigrate him nor his religious community whatsoever. Why does it bother you?