—Having small, weak, ‘bad’ girls play on the boys’ team or having big, strong, ‘good’ boys play on the girls’ team makes no sense.—
I strongly agree. They need to get over trying to “overequalize” us.
Really there’s no way to test that a boy is ‘bad’ enough to play with the girls, so I simply wouldn’t allow it.
I could see a case made for the freakish girl who’s good enough to play on the boys team, when there’s no equivalent team for her. After all, she can try out and make it or not make it just like any of the boys.
But that asymmetry is problematic, so I’d understand scratching that too.