[CdMGuy]

Forget the Red Cross and the United Way. They do not receive any of my contributions.

If you want to see your money used wisely and effectively in times of disaster, two organizations which are great are:

The Salvation Army

Catholic Relief Services

[MaxMax]

I just give food to the local religious food banks. They can't spend grits and oatmeal.
And Btw, I like grits and oatmeal and eat it weekly.