So if a person is a homosexual, stays in the closet and never has a same sex relationship, God is ok with it, it’s not a sin and they won’t go to hell?
They won’t go to hell.
God’s not okay with the disorder. God is the God of truth, nature, order. He wants disorder healed.
God is okay with their choice not to act on the disordered orientation. He would be very pleased at their courageous, suffering choice to do right rather than wrong.
He would also ask those with heterosexual orientations to be compassionate toward those afflicted with the disorder of same-sex attraction, to do whatever we can to understand whence the disorder arises and to find ways to overcome the disorder.
God is not okay with disorder.
God is okay with people who don’t given to their disorder.
You are probably to some degree disordered heterosexually. God knows I am. Almost all of us are. Our culture is so permeated with disordered heterosexuality that most of us have been disordered to some degree by it. We all have to resist and seek to overcome the disorders we are afflcted with. If we give in to the disorder and act on the disorder, we sin.