I left the hell of the bay area and live in a small conservative valley town about an hour north of Sacramento. I have a few years to retirement.
My mother is 80 years old and when she starts needed full time care, I’ll retire and provide it. I’m not putting here in a home. She may make it to 100, I don’t know. But as she is up their in age, I just don’t feel right leaving California when she might need me to care for her.
That’s the breaks.