“Will you really sacrifice your marriage over the first mistake?”
I’m not naive enough to think it’s the first mistake. I’m a pilot and have heard plenty of stories. This was just my wake-up call with him getting caught. He’s wanted to have his cake and eat it, too. Marriage counseling is out when he works overseas and gets 30 days off a year. I won’t divorce him. I took my vows seriously, but he’s not coming home and giving me an STD or HIV.
We spoke about this before..there are many great guys out there who will cherish and love you and won't purposely ask for a overseas assignment and see you 30 days out of the year...they will look forward to coming home and seeing you every day.
Life is way to short Pops88 to put up with this...but it's your life. I hope you are not full of regret down the road for not doing anything now. This is what turns me off to organized religion...you thinking you need to stick this out for God when you, more than anyone, really deserve better.