I agree. There are ways of replying to the lesbian that does not make Christians look mean and ignorant.
Turning the tables on the homosexuals and politely refering to them as Christophobic will be far more effective. They cannot take what they dish out. They won’t know how to answer the “Christophobic” charge.
Her words are moral pitchforks thrust into the heart of sin. If that is mean and ignorant it is a badge of honor worthy of Jesus.