So, apparently is “tapping” the toe of someone in the adjacent restroom stall.
I wonder how many coded “invitations” to jump the bum those people have. Is there a list of gestures, activities, and ways we're not to lie on a hotel bed that we can share with our friends and family, so the rest us don't risk a sneak attack on the “out door”?
I used to sell insurance. I went to a guy’s house, very good looking man, a nurse. In about 1984. He told me that he crawled around on his hands and knees in the bath houses in San Francisco and he knew he was getting AIDS. I had heard of the bath houses of course but had no idea...I mean, why would someone crawl around like that on their hands and knees? I think I get it now. Totally disgusting thoughts too.