Doesn't mean parents need to bring their kids into the mix.
And if the parents are going to bring their once-innocent-minded kids into the mix, don't just stand idly by as another adult brings your kid to tears!
Too many wrongs in this story.
That doesn't mean that the kid couldn't have wanted to do it. (ie, the parent may not have intended to "bring the kid into the mix" but rather the kid went into the mix of their own will.) I've known several youngsters with the will & conscience to want to stop abortion.
And if the parents are going to bring their once-innocent-minded kids into the mix, don't just stand idly by as another adult brings your kid to tears!
That is a given, and indeed more indicative of a) horrid parenting, and/or b) that the parent didn't want to go, but the kid.