Nope. I have a very good marriage. Been married 30 years, have three kids, my first and only marriage.
I am, however, old enough to have observed people and how they react.
I would like to see the woman you have dominated for so many years, giving in to your “suggestion” every time, because she wanted to “keep the peace.”
I saw a lot of women like her on a lot of military bases around the world, and also in my neighborhoods when I was working. Many had no clue what life was like without their dictator husband to tell them, to manage the checkbook and tell them how much they could spend at the grocery or wherever they wanted to shop.
As for “observing people,” well, you can only base your “deductions” on what you prefer to believe, and not on the education that you garnered because of a REAL interest.
You have become boring. You repeat platitudes that have been running through your mind for years. None of which suggest you had an interest in really learning anything worthwhile.