It is naive to think any partnership can endure two leaders. That type of mistake is exactly why this study demonstrates a higher incidence of divorce among the study group.
The only distinctive, in that sense, of the "Judeo-Christian" marriage is leadership falls to the husband by default.
And this talibanesque view is why people my age are running away from religion...I do respect your opinion and view but it's not for me. I love my women strong(mentally and physically), smart and independent..