This is true in no small part because the sexual experience is different for men and women.
You are mostly correct. But the different sexual experience and proclivities of both genders are still rooted in the consequences of reproduction. If women are too fast & loose, they risk getting stuck with the spawn of undesirable and/or absent mates. Women also have a shorter “shelf life” then men, and need to be more choosey. In contrast, all a guy needs to safely spread his seed is a condom. Consequences are all too optional.
Not trying to be argumentative. I may be as off base as can be, and I hope I’m not being too indelicate here, but it’s still my perception that the act of penetrating or being penetrated result in a completely different mindset, no matter the protection.
I would venture that some women would agree and others would disagree with this.