[Belle22]

Who’s blaming her? She made her choices. Everybody in this sordid stew went along with a lot of bad acts to get positions and perks.

[annieokie]

Belle, I don't want to get into an arguement with you, but actually you did blame her, not sure if you meant too:

"""""His wife defines dowdy. What did she expect would happen? She must have been deeply depressed to let herself go like she did.""""""...........

She is not to blame for her husbands infidelity, he made the choice. He married her til death do they part.

PEACE?