My generation was FORCED to leave...
Men spend too much time on the internet & play video games simply because feminism has ruined American women so much that it's just not worth trying to "woo their affections".
When your choices are shrew Sandra Fluke type Career women or single moms who popped out 2 or 3 kids from different thug fathers, both of which can easily rape you in divorce court, let's just say for most guys playing Wii or Playstation is a much better option.
Some of this is due to decline in morality in general, and a lot has to do with parents not expecting their children to behave responsibly. Parents’ goals should be for their children to learn to be responsible adults, learn to work, and to suffer the consequences of their own mistakes. Most parents shield their children from all of these and indulge them instead. You do no favors for your kids if they never have to work for what they have or if they don’t learn to respect and obey their parents.
The other big issue is the absurd system that keeps people in school of one kind or other until they are in their thirties. Most kids today could easily learn what they need to know and be able to provide for themselves by the time they are 18, if they are taught that their goal is to be successful, responsible adults. The entire education system is a government con and does nothing but provide jobs for union teachers and leftist professors. Oh, and subsidized day care.
“Another factor to add is video games and the internet.”
These alternatives to divorce, custody battles, and being booted from the home where your children sleep (while still paying for the home) are available to women as well.
The fact is that the legal atmosphere (which enslaves fathers at the whim of the mother) and the economic atmosphere (in which it is increasingly difficult for a white man to get an education, job, or promotion) make it impractical for a man to risk so much. As long as women support these measures, they can have birthday parties for their cats while immigrants do the breeding for us.