I guarantee he threatened her more than once and she wouldnt kick him out. She watched him turn into a mass killer and did nothing to stop it.
Virginia Tech did the same thing to Cho. They ignored all the signs. The only person who did anything was Nikki Giovanni and they ignored her.
I respect you immensely but frankly, there is nothing that she could have done. Nothing. The way the laws stand in this country, there is nothing that can be done unless danger is immenent. Nothing.
Whether she was happily married, whether she had all the monies and legal advice in the world, when an psychiatric patient doesnt want treatment, and there is no immenent danger, there is nothing that can be done.
This is not a gun issue,it is not a parenting issues, it is fully an mental health system issue. The lawsuits agains the people who implement such draconian measures to prevent early intervention and custodial care of dangerous people should begin. People with poor judgement who are abusing themselves.
She could have kicked him out of the house when he threatened her.