n00b,
Some kids cry at Disneyland. Others believe they are at Disneyland, when in fact, they are in Cleveland.
Both are wrong. You can’t fix miserable or unobservant.
And, if I have to choose between being unobservant and being miserable, I don't want to trade places with you - I'll happily stick with unobservant, thank you.
Unobservant is fixable.