You accurately quoted dragnet2: millions of stay at home moms, who never had to work a day in her life outside the home and then went on to misrepresent the poster's meaning.
The poster said, "...never had to work...", and you misrepresent it as if he said "...never worked..." But even that doesn't matter because the end phrase, "...outside the home...", makes the "had to" clause moot.
...Or is the ganja that bad?
I suspect I nailed the negative attitude towards stay at home moms perfectly, which is why him and others are squaking. Flak = over the target. Yes, stay at homes moms are lazy. So lazy that taking care of children isn’t ‘work’, or at least ‘worthwhile work’ at all!