There are two types of Bronze Stars...one with a “V” for valor (awarded for meritorious actions in combat) and one sans “V” for meritorious service. I was awarded the latter for service at the command level over a period of six months.
I served at New Kabul Compound in the center of Kabul. We did not mingle with the local population. When not in uniform, I have traveled to numerous Muslim countries and discovered that once a relationship is established, conversation is free-wheeling. Many Muslims are nominal at best in their faith and open to dialogue.
And the Koran teaches the good Muslim to lie to the infidel. This is called Taqiyyah. And you have seen it.