Sorry, but I don’t agree “that’s it.”
Epigenetics is a new science. The people behind the agenda have been running themselves ragged trying to find a physiological reason for homosexuality; if they can’t find a genetic link, they’ll try this. I would expect this theory to be disproven, given time, like all the “gay gene” theories.
I believe homosexuality is a sin which is introduced to the individual by his or her particular environment, such as abnormal parental relationships, sexual abuse as a child or sexual experience as a young person with an older homosexual. I used to work in an industry which had plenty of gay male employees, and they all loved to talk about their private lives. Almost all of them had absent, weak fathers, domineering mothers, had been abused as a child, or had been initiated by an older homosexual, or some combination of those factors.
I don’t accept that it’s something they’re born with. Too many people decide late in life that they’re gay. And the majority of lesbians and homosexuals are attracted to the opposite sex, as well.
I agree with you-—God is so much more loving than we can imagine. But we know He is absolutely holy, as well. Romans 1 says that God gives people over to their depravity when they practice homosexuality. We should never hate the individual, but we should have no tolerance for this sin God calls an abomination.
Then it must be psychological. I actually suspect a combination of all three.