I am blaming everyone. There was time, way back around 1960, that most young women knew better than to put themselves in situations where unscrupulous men could take advantage of them. We are living in last days of the Elois, as the Morlocks begin to assert their domination.
So young women should know better than to attend parties—because men can slip date rape drugs into their drinks?
By blaming everyone you are blaming the victim.
(BTW, blaming ‘everyone’ is an old liberal trick.)