“Assisted Living” is X PEN SIV for 24/7. We had my mom on it and it was over $100K a year.
Holder has the hammer of THOR ‘bout to ring his bell.....................H A R D
I know....OH how I know......so my mission is to talk with her honestly about it (and the cost) AND to recommend alternatives...such as..”You can still walk, talk, whiz in the toilet, and cook without risking setting the house afire...have you considered having someone come in to the house to help you?” (which will be futile, since she is such a perfectionist she pisses off anyone that tries...because they enver do “it” (the cleaning, the lawn, the shovelling etc etc etc...) BUT...at least I will feel better having given her choices ;-) (her heart is pooping out...but hell, it has been beating 87 years, it is supposed to get tired! ;-)