“You’re like a do it yourself ‘handy man’, tinkering on my car. It runs worse than it did before, you are spending lots of money because you don’t know how to fix the car, and in the end, I’m sitting here still waiting to get my car fixed.”
Stop sitting around waiting for someone else to fix the car.
So I should fix it myself when I don’t understand how it works rather than taking it to someone who does?