Where you really see it is in small owner operated businesses, where the company is run like an extension of the bosses family/slave farm.
I experienced this first hand. Owner first insisted I attend company parties for clients. First time I did I put on a nice suit and tie only to have the SOB tell me that I would be bar tending for the party. He pulled that stunt again but soon after I always ‘ had plans - sorry, can’t attend ‘
One of the greatest dirt bag liars I have ever had the misfortune of knowing.
That is a classic example, many people can relate to that one.