let me ask you a couple of questions out of curiosity .
Do you support homosexual marriage, polygamy and other kind of marriage?
Are you saying no Govt in marriage and if so then are you aware judges the Govt used to marry the pilgrims and founding fathers and others going all the way today?
If Govt is out then should they also scrap laws for sex age, incest and animals?
I ask because every time I ask this I never get an answer so maybe you could answer that
And I know you Cafeteria Constitutionalists like to pick and choose the parts of the constitution you choose to believe in instead of all of it (kinda like the liberals. You guys should go bowling sometime. You have more in common than you think). But show me where in Article 1, Section 8 where the federal government is given the power to regulate marriage. Until you can find it, go have a drink, calm down, and argue this from the state level because you have nothing to stand on otherwise.