Been married twice. Total was 30.5 years.
Women carry used tampons around with them all the time. Of course, it depends on the venue.
I found a used condom inside the first one once. That was the end of that.
This is what your wives did - told you?
I've never known any woman ever, ever, who carried around used tampons. Never. Did you wives also carry around jars of excrement and urine?