Instead of being at the house making sure the little angel stayed grounded, he was out with the girlfriend. When he came home and went to bed, it didn't concern him that the little angel hadn't been home for hours and his whereabouts were unknown. That sort of parenting is real troublesome.
It's not troublesome to the people who need to be troubled by it ... the actual parents of all the young Obamassons beating and shooting and stealing and dying. If they gave a single isolated flying freep about their children, they wouldn't be standing there yadda yadda high-quality preschool.
They'd be saying, "He could have been a decent person, an okay student, a productive adult ... but *I* blew it."