That also holds true with foreign aid, though oppression may not be quite the word.
To accept it, they must accept the status of an inferior. That’s why they must hate us, for helping them. They want to immitate the West, the technology, the democracy. But immitation, too, is an admission of inferiority, all as per Hoffer in Ordeal. So they must hate us to regain their pride, or see immitation as a means to the end of conquering the hated West.