I was just beotchin’ about this the other day!
My kids are grown, the ex-huz is in ‘La-La-Land’ due to drugs and alcohol, and I’m still farming and keeping this place up by myself!
I do every bit as much every day as I did when they were all underfoot...BUT - the benefits in the end are mine, all mine! :)
Sorry to hear that about your ex husband. :( That sucks. No hubby on my end, all the improvements here go to the landlady who owns the place. The nice thing is that I pretty much have the place to myself. :)