Understood, but I’m not talking about Manhattan. I have no problem driving in Manhattan. You just have to become crazy, and not be surprised by anything. That’s pretty straight forward. It’s when you are on the highways/freeways in surrounding states, outside of the city, and are tailgated by ‘out of state’ New Yorkers, that you have to fight the urge to force them off the road and start a fist fight (I’m mostly joking).
We drove in upstate NY, it was no different than any other place in the US. Now if you want to talk about the crazy people driving like a bat out of h@ll on the steep mountains grades in PA, that it might actually get down to a fight for survival there..LOL.