In college I had to host a huge restaurant at the top of a scenic casino and the waitresses would often either:
1. Beg me to not seat urban patrons in their section
2. Ask me to set them in the section of co-workers they disliked
3. BRIBE me to do either 1 or 2 above
Cuz they had a loathing for blacks, right? NOPE!
Cuz they’d all knew that they’d be barked at to run around for VERY many extra things, and then get NOTHING, in the end.
They are either very cheap, or see themselves as being historically wronged, and are evening things up.
I don’t know which of the two it is.
The experience was sharp enough that when I later read that hospitals could never get urban organ donations, I easily remembered it. In medicine, that’s very relevant, as there’s a huge factor of histocompatibility (tissue types don’t match).
Also historically urban colleges like Howard Univ are primarily funded by wealthy liberal Jews and Gentiles —that one really stunned me.
If you want to “be real” you jilt and RIP OFF your own people, also. It’s some really sick code, or something.
Had a similar experience a few years ago with someone I hadn’t seen in 10 years. No kids making a mess but they were asses during the meal bitching to the waitstaff and complaining about everything.
The service and food was good. The guy was just an ass. When we got ready to leave, we were paying for the meal, so he said he wold take care of the tip. He then dropped a dollar down and said out loud that was all they were worth.
We said goodbye and my wife left another $10.00 and told the manager our apologies. Neither of us wouuld talk to that fool ever again.
The exact same reasons were given for my favorite Mexican restaurant recently closing down. The owner said they were no longer worth the trouble-and the help backed him up on it.