I gave up trying to live a normal life in the States and moved to the Philippines in February. I am retired, living on a small pension. I need air conditioning 24/7, drive a Honda scooter, and shop for fresh food. I live on less than $700 a month, in a rented 5 bedroom house, a 6-day-a-week housekeeper, and a full belly. I can rent a car for 1500 pesos a day (around $35 +/-) when I need one.
I am in a small city, just a $15 ride to Cebu, with huge malls and the traffic to go with it. I love it here. The people are friendly and courteous. The food is abundant, and my lifestyle is laid back. I have satellite TV and hi-speed internet for tv and communications. I was watching the Nascar race in Chi-town, until they stopped it for rain.
I came here because I wanted to do more than just "survive"!
I have too many children and grandchildren here to do that, because I like to keep in touch with them. But it sounds like you’ve found a good life. Best of luck.