It REALLY depends on what was said, how it was said and who it was said to. If a 6'6" 340LB offensive lineman tells a 15 year old girl, "Let me use your phone or I'm going to kill/rape/hurt you!", the girl should shoot him and call the police. Right?
We may never know what all happened and why. Again, I am not taking sides yet. I waited on the Saint Skittles case and am glad I did.
With a locked door between the offensive lineman and the girl? Probably not, no. If/when the guy starts trying to break down the door, then sure.
I agree that it's too early to jump to any conclusions. But, at first glance, this just doesn't smell right.