Eventually, all people like you, always out themselves for what they actually are.
Patience is a virtue....
This is five minutes of my life I won’t get back, and you probably aren’t worth it.
What I have is limited patience with self righteous blame mongers.
The choices you have made have taken you to where you are. The responsibility for your problems is yours. You can either accept that or spend the rest of what time you have blame mongering and scapegoating. Psychological transference and self pity seasoned with sanctimony and self righteousness are two of the cheapest and most addictive and finally most destructive narcotics that exist. You can either cultivate your garden of grievances against who or whatever you wish to blame for your problems or failures in life or move on and accept what is. But as Irvin Cobb observed ‘a capacity for self pity is one of the last things a woman surrenders.