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Lincoln waitress receives the tip of a lifetime
http://journalstar.com/ ^ | 1/5/14 | PETER SALTER

Posted on 01/06/2014 4:28:56 PM PST by Rebelbase

The Cracker Barrel customer had a checkbook, and what he wrote in it after lunch Thursday would make his happy server even happier, but first he and his friend had a few questions.

They asked the hostess: Can you give us your grumpiest server? We want to make them laugh.

Sorry, the hostess said. Nobody grumpy here. I’ll seat you with our happiest.

At Table 222, they asked Abigail Sailors for the special — turkey and dressing — and for eggs and sausage.

Then they asked the 18-year-old why she was so happy.

And over the course of their meals, she told them.

About her childhood. The youngest of five from Falls City was just 7 months old when her parents crashed their car on the back roads to St. Joseph, Mo. Her mother never fully recovered from her brain injury, and her father wasn’t fit to be a father.

They were scattered to three foster homes, then reunited under the same roof. They endured abuse there for years, said Abigail’s older sister, Sydnie Murphy. That foster father is still in prison.

“All the horror stories you hear about foster care,” Sydnie said, “we lived through it.”

The state split them again — some to other homes, Abigail and Sydnie and a brother eventually to their father’s house. But then he was arrested for abuse, too.

They didn’t find real stability until about nine years ago, when John and Susi Sailors took them in. And kept them. And raised them. And loved them like they love their own five children.

“It’s a great home, great people, amazing,” said Abigail, who took their last name. “I don’t know how I would have turned out if I didn’t have them. They shaped the person I am today.”

Abigail still sees her birth mom. In fact, she and Sydnie were picking her up at her rehabilitation home in Omaha and taking her out for pizza Thursday night.

After she talked about her past, Abigail told her customers about her future. Which was on hold. She had just finished her first semester at Trinity Bible College in North Dakota, where she’s studying youth ministry and psychology.

But she’s paying her own way, and didn’t have enough money for the spring semester. So she was saving her wages and tips to add to her financial aid, and planned to return next fall. She was thinking about taking online courses until then.

“She’s always been a good worker and paid her own bills and saved her money,” her foster father said. “She’s a great girl. It’s amazing where she is from, what she’s been through.”

And that — all of that — was why she was so happy, the server told her customers.

Her life could be worse. But it isn’t.

“I’m just thankful. Everything we went through, my attitude is: God blessed me with a lot of things. I’m doing good. That’s all that matters to me.”

The customers — one older, one middle-aged — kept asking questions. Abigail kept answering. She didn’t know them. They weren’t regulars at the north Lincoln restaurant. She did learn they were from Nebraska, and she learned their names, but didn’t feel right sharing them.

When the men were finished eating, one told her he had graduated from Trinity.

He opened his checkbook.

He wrote one check to the college for $5,000, for her tuition.

He wrote one check to her for $1,000, for whatever she needed.

He left a $100 tip she split with another server.

And Abigail, who’d felt like she already had so much, now had even more.

“I couldn’t believe it. I tried to thank them, and they said, ‘thank God.’”


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Extended News; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: abigailsailors; crackerbarrel; optimism; religion
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Moderator, I put this in News/Activism so it could ride on the sidebar for a while. The story is too good not to be shared.

I had a tinge of tear at the ending.

1 posted on 01/06/2014 4:28:56 PM PST by Rebelbase
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To: Rebelbase

Just wow.


2 posted on 01/06/2014 4:32:06 PM PST by MeganC (Support Matt Bevin to oust Mitch McConnell! https://mattbevin.com/)
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To: Rebelbase

Just a tinge? :-)


3 posted on 01/06/2014 4:32:48 PM PST by Labyrinthos
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To: Rebelbase; SLB

Amazing story! Thank you for sharing it.


4 posted on 01/06/2014 4:33:33 PM PST by Stonewall Jackson (I aim to misbehave.)
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To: Rebelbase

wiping away tears......


5 posted on 01/06/2014 4:38:15 PM PST by Ann Archy (Abortion......the Human Sacrifice to the god of Convenience.)
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To: Rebelbase

Hmmm...Well she is happy now until the Marxist run IRS comes knocking.


6 posted on 01/06/2014 4:38:21 PM PST by GrandJediMasterYoda (Hitlery: Incarnation of evil.)
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To: Rebelbase

Wish we had the ultimate, not-to-be-outrated, LIKE button on this site...for a posting such as this! Love the story! So uplifting to my soul!


7 posted on 01/06/2014 4:38:55 PM PST by nfldgirl
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To: Rebelbase

BTTT


8 posted on 01/06/2014 4:39:21 PM PST by deport
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To: Rebelbase

Wow, that’s a beautiful story RB. Thank you for sharing.

And on your last line, me too!


9 posted on 01/06/2014 4:39:43 PM PST by beaversmom
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To: Rebelbase

She is a lovely young Lady and what comes from her heart radiates to make her so.


10 posted on 01/06/2014 4:40:50 PM PST by Red_Devil 232 (VietVet - USMC All Ready On The Right? All Ready On The Left? All Ready On The Firing Line!)
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To: Mean Maryjean

Not only did the couple make one person feel happy, but countless others who will read this story.


11 posted on 01/06/2014 4:41:48 PM PST by Rebelbase (Tagline: optional, printed after your name on post)
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To: Red_Devil 232


12 posted on 01/06/2014 4:43:22 PM PST by Red_Devil 232 (VietVet - USMC All Ready On The Right? All Ready On The Left? All Ready On The Firing Line!)
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To: Rebelbase

awesome. There is still some good left in the world.


13 posted on 01/06/2014 4:44:04 PM PST by Farnsworth (Now playing in America: "Stupid is the new normal")
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To: Rebelbase

Thanks for the heartwarming post. The people to whom I forwarded it will also be thankful, I’m sure.


14 posted on 01/06/2014 4:44:36 PM PST by rhema ("Break the conventions; keep the commandments." -- G. K. Chesterton)
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To: GrandJediMasterYoda

She received two payments

A taxable tip and a non taxable scholar ship.


15 posted on 01/06/2014 4:46:56 PM PST by bert ((K.E. N.P. N.C. +12 ..... Travon... Felony assault and battery hate crime)
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To: Rebelbase

more than a tinge...thank you for sharing this.


16 posted on 01/06/2014 4:47:09 PM PST by bigbob (The best way to get a bad law repealed is to enforce it strictly. Abraham Lincoln)
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To: Rebelbase

We should never forget how good things can be and how bad they can be.

Thanks for the post


17 posted on 01/06/2014 4:47:56 PM PST by dirtymac (Now is the time for all good men to come to the aid of their country)
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To: Rebelbase
At Cracker Barrel. Fabulous.

I wonder if something like this has ever happened at a restaurant in Hollywood.
18 posted on 01/06/2014 4:52:03 PM PST by Shannon
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To: Rebelbase
Google Images not all are of her

I find a facebook but not sure it is hers.

19 posted on 01/06/2014 4:54:25 PM PST by deport
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To: Rebelbase

Amazing story.


20 posted on 01/06/2014 4:54:56 PM PST by Sir Napsalot (Pravda + Useful Idiots = CCCP; JournOList + Useful Idiots = DopeyChangey!)
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