Get married. Stay married. That’s typically a recipe for success, although it’s politically incorrect to say there’s anything wrong about having children out of wedlock (or getting divorced). BTW, I’m not saying divorce isn’t sometimes justified. Even Christ permitted it in cases of adultery, but I am claiming that divorce and out of wedlock births are both social ills that help increase poverty.
Before a woman gets married she needs to live a life that will attract a decent man.
I divorced first husband (and was Catholic) due to him being a wife - beater, beat me when I was 7mos pregnant with our son..which resulted from him raping me after he beat me. I do pray the Lord finds this a justifiable reason to divorce.