Oh no, homosexuals loooooooooove straight men. Not every straight man, but gays are stuck in a weird place where they fantasize about straight, manly men, all while knowing that actual straight men have no interest in them!! And they get their kicks “turning” the curious.
Of all the gay men I’ve known, NOT ONE was turned on by the effeminate swishy type. None. However they often end up with them anyway because sadly, the only men who want gay men are other gay men! Bummer. Lol.
It’s like your average chunky plain looking man. He WANTS a supermodel. He might not get to marry one though.
Their gaydar is never wrong. “He” (their selected target) just isn’t aware yet.