i think this guy has some issues he is trying to justify. i feel manly and
1. i can feel sad. i can shed tears at emotional evants like a military service for a fallen comrade. i don’t bawl and i don’t let it control my life but everyone has blue moods. my friend just lost his wife and he feels sad as do i and we have cried talking about it.
2. i will hug a close male friend when i first meet him or when saying goodbye or pat a guy on the shoulder for doing a good job without feeling feminine
3. i carry a tote bag all the time because i usually have a notebook and a book to read. no different than carrying a map case in the military. it’s not pink and fru-fru-ie.
4. if a guy looks nice, he looks nice. doesn’t mean i want to have sex with him. tom selleck as magnum pi comes to mind.
5. i will sometimes sit down to pee because i am reading a book or doing a puzzle but that is strictly in my house and not anywhere else.
Yeah, why on earth would somebody sit on a public toilet if he didn't have to?