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To: Sherman Logan
I had a woman in a checkout line loudly accuse me of peeking at her pin number, which of course I wasn't doing, and even if I knew her pin number I wouldn't know what to do with it. She was also a bit nuts, maybe a bit challenged. But I do confess that - if I have a choice - I often stand in line behind the best available female butt.

In theatres, I always go to matinees and try to sit apart from other people, men or women (except my girlfriend), because I like my space.
66 posted on 01/19/2014 10:31:16 AM PST by Steve_Seattle
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To: Steve_Seattle

Right. In a mostly-empty theater, I’m going to get a little freaked out if any stranger chooses to sit in the seat next to me.

If it’s an attractive female, I probably wouldn’t object. Except that my wife is likely seated on my other side, and she most certainly would!

These are not examples of sex/gender stereotyping. They are examples of “social space conventions,” which vary by culture. Different cultures just feel comfortable at varying distances.

It is said that at a diplomatic party, it’s fun to watch an Englishman or American conversing with an Arab.

The Arab’s comfortable distance for casual conversation is at least a foot closer than the American’s. So he take a half-step forward because he subconciously is too far away. This makes the American feel vaguely uncomfortable, so backs up half a step. In half an hour or so they’ll work their way clear across a room.

These cultural conventions are neither right or wrong, they’re just different.


82 posted on 01/19/2014 10:38:55 AM PST by Sherman Logan
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