She may be a good mother...but she certainly is a BAD liar!
I don’t know any good mothers that have had their children taken from them after they have effectively abandoned their children.
I can also say that I don’t know any good mothers who have been ordered to be sober (No Drugs or Alcohol 24 hours prior) while exercising their visitation privileges.
When it comes to tolerance of bad behavior, that has to be cut off when it involves children. No excuses and No exceptions.