I’ve been trying to figure out how I would deal with this if I were the vender. Since I”m close to retirement I know I would just close up but a lot of people can’t do that. I’m thinking of our friends who are living a gay life style. We have two right now whom we have known for decades. They aren’t a couple - one lives in the northwest and the other in the south. They don’t know each other but each is in a relationship. I would pass on going to a “wedding.” The photographer who had been doing photos of the “gay” man and his family and friends for years? And then says “no” to the wedding? I think I would just show up, late, take a few shots and go home. The wedding cake? Do people really want the person who makes the cake cranky at you? I’m really polite to waitstaff. My kids have been waiters and they have some pretty scary stories. Flowers? Same thing. Its creative. At least you don’t eat flowers.
Technically speaking, could a photographer just agree to a “no weddings” policy? I’m not saying I like it but how could someone claim “discrimination” if he’s not offering wedding photography services to anybody? Just trying to think of possible options for someone in this PC totalitarian nightmare we’re living in.