The priorities of our “armed “ services are very often the personal priorities of the commanders in charge… hubby saw things in 13 years of active duty that have nothing to do with integrity and service before self….
Heck right before i got out of the air force someone was making obscene phone calls to my wife while i was at work. I got caller id when it first came out and found out it was someone i worked with. Took the caller id in to the capt and he ordered me to apologize to the bastard making the calls. Yeah i thought about fragging a couple of guys.