If you want to serve, you'd better get used to it.
I have no patience for this "low morale" sniveling. If you can't hack it, GTFO. There's plenty of other people lined up to take your place.
As far as women and gays in the military go, it's never going to get repealed. Ever. Get used to it or go home. You don't have to like it. You don't have to enlist or re-enlist either. The Corps doesn't care either way. See my previous comment on enlistment and retention.
Hey, Cat, I’m outta there! Embrace it, live it, love it. I ain’t gotta do it. To each his own, Pal.