Moving to ND isn’t for everyone. If you live in Cali, going to a place that is almost the farthest you can get from the beach is a tough sell.
Well, then, their complaint of no job has qualifiers. Keep the beach, the lifestyle and the climate and live in your car until you lose that too, or lose the beach, the lifestyle and the climate, get a job and a place of your own.
Their choice.
If you live in Cali, going to a place that is almost the farthest you can get from the beach is a tough sell.”
Life can be difficult, even under the best of circumstances. Had these parents fulfilled their obligations as parents these kids would have the skills to function independently. But they chose to be their benevolent friend instead and this is what we ended up with.
Wonder how long it is going to take parents to realize that the kid in their basement is also part of the generation that will be responsible for them in their old age but is ill equipped to do so.
Gotta do what you gotta do. Look at my post 94. I moved to the liberal cesspool of Maryland. %0th on my list of top 50 choices of places to move.
I really like my job, but I hate this state. It’s insane. I spent 8 months away form my family, had to pay for two residences for a while. My only furniture was a $10 lawn chair from Wal-Mart.
With responsibility comes tough choices. Too many Millenials have no clue about responsibility cause they get participation trophies for everything.
Moving to ND isn’t for life. Move back to CA in a few years. It ain’t that hard.