Re point b) — I was reading an article on CNN the other day (clearly targeted at women), and one quote that struck me was, “no matter what your feelings are, they are completely valid.”
I saw one of these Oprah-esque magazine quizzes asking women if their spouses were “emotionally abusive”.
Question #1 was “is there something wrong in your relationship, but you really can’t define what it is?”
Just how in the hell is a man supposed to go about addressing a problem that no one can even define??