“If you value your right to posess a firearm you can’t seek medical advise for any mental issues, including depression. That’s just the way it is right now.”
The common “throwaway questions” at the ER are:
Do you feel threatened today?
Do you have any feelings about doing yourself harm?
And at the doctors:
Do you own firearms?
Answering these questions will get you a visit from the cops with the intent of taking your guns.
Or more specifically, answering these questions with anything other than "no" can cost you your guns.