We ought to be able to go into a courtroom and say to the judge, “Your honor, you know as well as I that same-sex marriage makes no sense; and so I rest my case.”
The real solution is to have the judge recalled and thrown out.
Argue that permitting Gay Martiage in a state violates the First Amendment Rights of Christians.
Except that in many (most?) cases the judge is a federal judge who has a lifetime appointment.