You have given your loved ones a gift. Having them be absolutely sure of your wishes is a burden they will not have to carry.
That is one of the most respectful gifts you could bestow on them.
I will keep in you in my prayers. I will pray that your time here is peaceful and full of joy. I will pray that when you are called home that it is swift and as painless as possible.
Thank you for the sweet words. Your response was exactly what I was going for,