Darn good advice, both of you. Not only does the guy protect himself from situations like this, not only does he protect his spiritual health, but he also protects himself from a number of STDs.
There are more than a few STDs a guy can pick up even if he is wearing a condom.
Let’s say hooking up results in a pregnancy and the woman decides to keep the child. The hooking up is morally wrong, but keeping the child is morally right. Nevertheless, the man better be prepared to be on the hook so to speak for two decades as a result of that hook up. The risks are many and longstanding, the pleasures are short and few.
I take issue with many modern churches who no longer talk about fornication. Christian parents who tell their children to not marry and wait until they’ve finished college and have a good job, are often complicit. With people waiting till nearly 30 to marry these days, what’s the odds of remaining pure? I say it’s far better to marry.